Mischa, it amuzes me u cant see a joke when it is staring you in the face, i deliberately mis-quoted you to play into the "men only hear what they want to hear" u totally missed it, maybe it is not men who always misinterpret things, maybe we are right in our thoughts, and the reason women get wound up when we dont listen is because we have the abilirt to decide what is drivel and what is not, and when we do correct them on what is said it is a problem cause you mis-interpret what is said and so remember it a different way. think the mystery is solved guys, go on prioritising things, the problem lies not with us. ignorance, it seems, truely is bliss.