Star - My quote was an open one - not directed toward any particular individual.

I have lost nothing. I have learned great deal over the last few days - one being a lesson in humility.

Geogina - I'd like to give you a hug for being an understanding person. I think your advice is right sadly - the folk on this forum are not at all like the people on this 'other' forum. The strange thing is that 'their' problems were much, much worse and the arguments really nasty, hurting quite a few individuals deeply with accusations that were totally untrue concerning a child's illness. I've never seen so much anger on any forum I've ever been on. But one member was able to calm everyone down - it worked.

It doesn't matter Geo truly.