as an older man, I dont have to prove anything, I can acpet rejection easily and am grateful to any female who shows an interest and smiles back.
we also have much ore time and nornally have a genuine interst in teh female rather than just trying to get into her pants.
we tend to have travelled and have worlds of experience and can chat on most subjects and express a genuine rapport etc with nost subjects that wont interst a younger man.
we are prepared to dance more and to teh laide slevel and not shwo off our latest moves etc
overall older is often simply more mature and li a good wine or cheese has so much more to offer.
oh and on the *** side ( not that we get much) we take our time and make sure the lady is happy rather than ourselves.