1. divorce him.
2. get rid of everything he gave you. emotional baggage.
3. hire a babysitter (assuming you have kids).
4. put your "freak'em dress" on.
5. find a better guy. take your time. shop as if you were buying a car: wisely.
6. invite ex-hubby to your wedding. success is the best revenge.

if all else fails, come see me. i'll help you get your confidence back.

good luck!

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Never have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.