Turk you just need to get stuck into the conversation. Its difficult to include someone that doesn't want to talk. Well impossible in chat rooms in fact. Try Newbies there are loads of friendly people in there.

Look at me I've only been here a short while and I feel quite at home already and people are getting to know my strange sense of humour now. You just need to make sure people don't forget you are there and you will be included in the conversation.