i know how your feeling. im a shy person who is in the middle of losing weight (very hard to not eat as much) and battle depression because of no boyfriends and lack of a social life. so i decided to start somewhere and join a couple of chatrooms. one or two are pretty good, sometimes i feel a little left out but the rooms go fast with many people in them. anywho, it gets boring and lonely and sometimes i need to chat. helps me from not eating, lol. hope everything goes better for you.