[QUOTE=Nygyl;52774]...but even when u switch pm's off you still get the request coming up on the screen obscuring the room, i think thats wot most people have a problem with....[/QUOTE]

There a Tick box for it .... when you turn off pm and the next time you get a message/request something like this

[B][COLOR="Red"]Username sent you a private
message, but your are not
allowed to accept it, so you
won't be able to see it, would
you like to set as 'accept the
private messages?

[ ] Dont show me this again [/COLOR][/B] <== Just hit the tick box and you wont be bothered with pm boxes or pm request.