Oh okay, it happens to everyone i guess. Its happened to me before a very long time ago. Thats what makes it all the more painfull cos she knew every little thing about me. She was my best friend and knowing that she prepared herself well before she left and confided in someone else whilst she was with me hurts a lot. I know she had to build a rapport with someone and trust them before she left me. She still maintains she didnt do anything wrong but ive seen the proof of it. Her loss though and when she gets hurt by the next bloke, she wont have anyone around to help her. Curious, wat u said about building confidence again? how do you do that? i mean it isnt easy is it? There is someone who likes me but she doesnt want to be rebound girl. How do i convicen her that she isnt. I work with her and do fancy her a lot. she is kind and caring and i get the impression she has been hurt before so how do i show her i wont hurt her? The doggy looks nice? is she/he yours? thanks for chatting