I always treat people as I'd like them to treat me, so I always try to be honest & am very open with my feelings which usually ends up with me getting hurt, but thats another story....

Anyway I think in the case of some guys its more of a case of saying anything to get someone into bed, when they get bored or get a new interest they'll run, realise things were better with you, beg to come back, then find something else again...etc....

Too many friends I've lost coz of how they treat women, it's not right & it's not big. Had many who'd boast about how many they've had then say I need to get out coz I can count on one hand how many I've had.