Is it bad to be a 30+ year old virgin

I am very smart academically, but never had any sort of relationship until this day, I am turning 31 soon, wondering if i really need to have ***? . My rationale for not having "an intercourse" is that i want to find love and care without having to do any thing with physical attraction. I am very timid and introvert in nature , this makes it hard for me to find a suitable person. So should i view this life differently ?

there is nothing at all wrong with being or remaining a virgin in your 30's. i did not lose mine until my 30's because i was dealing with severe agrophobia and relationships were inappropriate until i had dealt with it enough that i would not be bringing too much baggage into it.

you have to decide in life what is appropriate to you according to your own story, just like everyone else. you can change that status or not whenever it fits your needs and opportunity affords itself. there is nothing in life that makes s ex absolutely essential, it is nice but not all important, you can live without until u feel absolutely comfortable with cir***stances.

[sultry]

i think u have a lovely outlook....nothing wrong with that at all...

[sukisue]

knop elo an welcome do wat ever makes you comfortable you decide it is your decision and only you can decide wen were an who with and just beware the maniacs in here just kiddin were all nice if not barmy chat soon

[Belle15]

no point rushing into *** just because you are conscious of your age or lack of experience. Wait until you find someone you care for, it will feel much more meaningful than a drunken fumble or an emotionless encounter xx

Hahahahahahaha

[mac]

[QUOTE=Belle15;52421]no point rushing into *** just because you are conscious of your age or lack of experience. Wait until you find someone you care for, it will feel much more meaningful than a drunken fumble or an emotionless encounter xx[/QUOTE]

wes that you really speaking belle lol

[pete8242]

what i wouldnt give to be a virgin

dont have s e x m8
youll only miss it

[sukisue]

dont you mean you want a virgin pete pmsl

[QUOTE=knop;52401]I am very smart academically, but never had any sort of relationship until this day, I am turning 31 soon, wondering if i really need to have ***? . My rationale for not having "an intercourse" is that i want to find love and care without having to do any thing with physical attraction. I am very timid and introvert in nature , this makes it hard for me to find a suitable person. So should i view this life differently ?[/QUOTE]
hello can i meet you pls and tell me more about ur self