cheating girlfriend

How rank is it that my cheating ex girlfriend has the hump with me cos im trying to sort out the crap she left me in. do women like dragging it out so that men feel like ****. at least my luck y pants worked and ive moved on. feel like crap though that she keeps making me feel bad. havent apologiesed this time cos got nothing to apologiese for so she says doesnt want to talk to me. rumour at work is shes ****ging a colleague of hers. what a mess that i didnt have anything to do with. Ladies any thoughts?????

[sultry]

ur driving urself mad....ur just going in circles with this, she is probably upset that u aint falling for her manipulation this time...move on for ur own sake...make a fresh start for urself, start by leaving this topic alone now and start a new thread in the forum by tellin us about ur lucky pants lol

Well sultry, the lucky pants are going well. Have to wash em every day though. lol. im okay about stuff, just stopping myself from getting depressed and going mad. Am able to smile and laugh more and more every day and that helps. Its good to know that im not alone and this has happened to other people with less trust in their partners then me. Her loss and grass aint always greener. Hows you though? all going well?

[sultry]

[QUOTE=picasso;53509]Well sultry, the lucky pants are going well. Have to wash em every day though. lol. im okay about stuff, just stopping myself from getting depressed and going mad. Am able to smile and laugh more and more every day and that helps. Its good to know that im not alone and this has happened to other people with less trust in their partners then me. Her loss and grass aint always greener. Hows you though? all going well?
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all is great with me thanks...i to had the 'dirt' done on me, i have been single for coming 3 yrs now and really enjoyin it to, (had a brief fling a few months back but soon learnt that i wasnt ready for anything) its great to get to know myself again and build my confidence back up, have to say im looking forward to meeting mr right in the future tho lol...

Oh okay, it happens to everyone i guess. Its happened to me before a very long time ago. Thats what makes it all the more painfull cos she knew every little thing about me. She was my best friend and knowing that she prepared herself well before she left and confided in someone else whilst she was with me hurts a lot. I know she had to build a rapport with someone and trust them before she left me. She still maintains she didnt do anything wrong but ive seen the proof of it. Her loss though and when she gets hurt by the next bloke, she wont have anyone around to help her. Curious, wat u said about building confidence again? how do you do that? i mean it isnt easy is it? There is someone who likes me but she doesnt want to be rebound girl. How do i convicen her that she isnt. I work with her and do fancy her a lot. she is kind and caring and i get the impression she has been hurt before so how do i show her i wont hurt her? The doggy looks nice? is she/he yours? thanks for chatting