need advise on a girl I fancy

I have met a girl at work and its difficult as shes the boss's daughter but I fancey her like mad and I really feel she thinks the same but I do not know how to ask or approach her to ask allthough my looks should say it all to her and hers to me, we talk all the time and I feel my belly get that feeling of churning when I think about her and i dream about her and cany get her off my mind but there are other complications as me and my past girlfriend split as she hurt me badly and I have two great young sons that I see at weekends but to me this is bagadge and I had to carry the finaincial load and had to sell my house and reside with my mother breaking only even financially every month but this girl knows most of this and is aware I riside with my mother and have two young boys..... she is about 8 years younger but a great person......... I think I have fallen in love with her but cant do anything about it.......help

Easy step it out , ask her for coffee or a drink , if that goes well ask her on a date, a movie and dinner or just dinner and go from there

I f you don't ask you don't know. If she isn't interested she will soon let you know

All the best

Nina,

Great advice and I will do my best to ask her..... by the way I read my message back and felt really bad as I did not mean my kids are bagadge to me but to a girl younger than me?
I love my boys 110% and they will come first in my life to anything else but this girl is totally right for me and I think (allthough it may sound corny) that she and me are meant to be together and I cant stop thinking about her........
thanks for the advice and speak laters......x

I would of thought you were really young if it weren't for the age gap & the boys, how did it go Alec?

[sukisue]

kids are not baggage so if i was bosses daughter i wouldnt give ya the time of day sorry

Sukh... you do make me laugh, i think he meanrt he had a lot going on and pointed out his boys weren't baggage :P Given we have no reply.... you think he & the bosess daughter???

Heyy

If she knows all that stuff she must be fine with it, as she would've at least told you as a friend. So i think you should tell her you like her. Straight forward and simple. ^_^
If she likes you, she will let you know, so you don't have to keep wondering.

Good luck!

Be careful hun, seems to me that you want her to 'save' you a bit. Girlfriends/boyfriends can't fix things I'm afraid, you could end up with even more on your plate. How old are you guys? How old are your kids? Believe me, it's easy (and nice) to think that things would be better if you had someone, but you need to be ok outside of a relationship before you can be ok within one