When a guy introduces himself...

I am always worried when I approach a girl, I was wondering what would be a few things that would put you off when a guy introduces himself to you weather it be his physical appearance or what he says during the conversation

[Forger]

Well you never get a second chance to make a first impression............so if ya look like a warewolf i'd say stick with internet chat rooms.

Well I'm A Girl So I Would Say Just Be Your Self Dont Show-Off, Act Normal. Dont Be To Shy But Dont Be Too Forward Eather U'll Know If She's Like's You Or Not By The Way She Looks At You. xxx

[Nygyl]

* Don't say you hide in bushes
* Don't say you regulary have a sticky keyboard
* Don't say you have all the Page 3's from The Sun from 1984 to present day in a special album
* Don't say your face is on a Wanted poster at the local vets. Girls don't like 'animal worriers'
...............and lastly don't turn up on the date sweaty, out-of-breath with a flasher mac on....

[jill]

[QUOTE=Nygyl;63065]* Don't say you hide in bushes
* Don't say you regulary have a sticky keyboard
* Don't say you have all the Page 3's from The Sun from 1984 to present day in a special album
* Don't say your face is on a Wanted poster at the local vets. Girls don't like 'animal worriers'
...............and lastly don't turn up on the date sweaty, out-of-breath with a flasher mac on....[/QUOTE]

all spoken from experience Nyg!!!!!

ahh u learned the hard way didnt yeh lolll

xxxxxxxxxx

[scotsprincess]

yup everything Nyg said ....esp the animal bothering lol

i find bad teeth and breath is def a sour point on a 1st impression!

i tend to look at teeth , eyes, hair, belly then shoes!!!!

so no missing teeth, 2 eyes are a bonus but not always need lol, nice clean hair not greasy please.......and prefereably no visable no hair lol. no big beer bellys and def no prada primark scruffy plimsoles!

i dont ask for much really

Scots xx

men trying it on

[QUOTE=funasianguy20;63036]I am always worried when I approach a girl, I was wondering what would be a few things that would put you off when a guy introduces himself to you weather it be his physical appearance or what he says during the conversation[/QUOTE]

Don't try to impress just be yourself as everyone else is taken. Try not to appear or act as nervous as you are.

Good chat up line "How thick has ice got you be before a polar bear can't smash though it..........I don't know but I thought that might just break the ice" I'll get my coat.

Ok, this is true story (I wish I was this witty to make it up!)

I was doing a seasonal temp job, and because of the irregularity of the work, I had to apply for job seekers allowance for months in between. Anyways, I was reapplying in their office, and some random young guy (he wasn't chavvy or anything) came up and says something along the lines of..

"I couldn't help overhearing that you worked in -such and such company- and I worked there too. I'm -whatever his name was-..etc.."

Ok, so I'm worrying that he's been listening to the other details I've told in the appointment! It's a shame I couldn't forget about this incident, because he did work at the same place, and when the work was back on, he was at the same building too.

He'd approach me if he passed me in the corrider or if I was working as he passed by, which was great at first, but all he had to say was hi and to ask how I was and stuff.

One day I found out that a primary and highschool friend was at the same company when I walked into the cafeteria and he's sitting there, so I start chatting to him and catching up for a good 10 mins until the creepy guy comes and sits down and grinning away says we're all good friends cos he knows both of them, etc....The conversation kind of goes downhill after that, and that was the last time I even saw the school friend again, which really annoyed me....

Because I saw the creepy guy again! He decides that because we get the same bus, that he can unspokenly sit beside me on the bus home, regardless of me sticking my mp3 player in my ears. He also said that because he works with the company's system, and it deals with a large government database, he could look up my details if he has my second name or my date of birth!!! I was like noooooo, because I knew my details, and I didn't want him to look up mine!!! I'm still worried that he's somehow looked up my details, perhaps from asking someone else what my surname is.

Anyways, my final straw was when he asked for my number for the third time, after me refusing every time. I realised that he was as dense as a bucket of cement, so I stopped being friendly and chatty. I avoided eye contact, and grunted replies, didn't smile or laugh at any jokes or comments. I acted moody about things he said to kill any happy conversation , which was difficult for me to do, but I knew he'd keep pestering me if I didn't do it. I told my mum about it too, and she thought it was funny to refer to him as her future son in law whenever I ranted about him! Urgh.

Anyways, my point is, there were a lot of things that guy did that would normally have been successful- a lot of guys are too shy and stuff to talk to girls or try to make them laugh, and he was very friendly and cheerful. But I didn't find him physically attractive(He looked like Steve Carell on the cover of Dinner for Schmucks, but with slightly darker hair, no glasses and less brilliant teeth), he often had a dry boogey hanging out his nose, and he came across as a bit creepy and noisy. Even if he hadn't been so annoying, he wasn't attractive enough to me- even without the boogey accessory.

hmm some good posts here guys thanks to everyone who replied... I might need to get a little pimped out, but thats alright though, lol thank you all