dating/texting

[tommysize1]

do i have to do everything?
im the only one to call/text to organise a meet up.
she always agrees with my suggestions for things to do. but its kinda hard to tell how much she likes me?
only been seeing her 2 weeks tho.

do you girls ever try to organise dates with guys? or expect him to do it all?

[Ashley11]

Not really, well it's kinda the guys thing to do. You's don't have to do much lmao

Maybe, i'd suggest shopping and film but that's probably only if i thought he would buy me some stuff lol. Stop complaining and just organize things. But not things you like, things she'd like and she'll be more happy

[Johnny911]

If your always having to initiate the texts / calls / emails / pm's , that should be a lightbulb moment for you . Maybe she see's you as a boredom reliever ...nothing more .

[tommysize1]

yeah il just carry on.
shopping and film was my actual plan for the weekend ashley!

[Ashley11]

that is certainly the quickest route to *** lol

[tommysize1]

so been a month now.
ive been away with work all last week so i havent seen or heard from her for a while.
i got kind of annoyed that she hadnt called or sent a txt and thought she must be bored with me.
then the other day some other girl invited me to her place for dinner.
i accepted.
just as i was getting ready to go to dinner the original girl finally called me!
she wanted to meet up but i said i already had plans. GUTTED!
im meeting up with her tonight now!

but now i feel like a total prick cos the girl i went to dinner seems more into me than the original girl.
but im more into the original.
WTF have i done!

[Ashley11]

if it's not serious why can't you make the time to be into both of them lol?

[roobaby]

I agree with Ashley. At the moment both of these girls are just friends. I don't see that you would be doing anything dishonest by so******ing with both of them. Once you get to know them both better then you might find that things change. For the time being just enjoy being footloose and fancy free. My guess is that the girl who doesn't initiate contact might start to do so more once she learns that you have other *****s in the fire, so to speak!

[tommysize1]

original girl is definitely my favourite after last night!!!

[Ashley11]

[QUOTE=tommysize1;70863]
original girl is definitely my favourite after last night!!! [/QUOTE]



oh you dirty dog