Why do girls always want everything their own way?

Yes girls, when it comes to deciding what we are going to do together, it's always what the girls wants to do first. I don't have a problem with this usually, as I am an easy going kind of guy, but it can be rather annoying at times. For example, I say lets sit down together and listen to my music and she says, I want to listen to my music instead. So there it is, simply put, so whats the answer?

[shazzababie]

its my way or the highway in my house lol x

[roobaby]

I don't think it's a gender thing, men get their own way as well (or try to). For example, your suggestion was to listen to your music, which is in a way trying to get your own way. Maybe you shouldn't cave in? Or, better still, suggest something like "You choose 5 of your favourite tracks and I will choose 5 of mine". If you know that someone usually gets their own way then you need to come up with more cunning suggestions. Maybe that's how women usually get their own way more often, lol.

[QUOTE=shazzababie;71450]its my way or the highway in my house lol x[/QUOTE]

Are well there you are then, it has all to do with a womans psychology, they love to be in control of their man, it's as simple as that. Nothing wrong in that of course, I like woman to have control over me, as it makes me feel loved. Of course my example didn't include the fact, that the music was AC/DC For Those About To Rock albumn, not every womans idea of easy listening

[sugar]

Coz we are girls , thats what we do .....pay back for what we have to put up with from you guys .

[QUOTE=sugar;71459]Coz we are girls , thats what we do .....pay back for what we have to put up with from you guys .[/QUOTE]

What do you mean by putting up with us guys, are we really as bad as all that

Just out of interest, and this is an interesting question to ask is, how do you find us guys, and could we be better. I mean when we first meet up with each other, we are eager to please each other anyway we can. But when we get to know each other a lot more over time, we start to do our own things more, and are less interested in pleasing each other. The psychology here is quite interesting really, which is why I ask the question.

[QUOTE=roobaby;71452]I don't think it's a gender thing, men get their own way as well (or try to). For example, your suggestion was to listen to your music, which is in a way trying to get your own way. Maybe you shouldn't cave in? Or, better still, suggest something like "You choose 5 of your favourite tracks and I will choose 5 of mine". If you know that someone usually gets their own way then you need to come up with more cunning suggestions. Maybe that's how women usually get their own way more often, lol.[/QUOTE]

Interesting, perhaps it has to do with how dominant the man or woman is in a relationship. I do tend to cave in though, because I don't like having arguments over silly little things. I have yet to meet a woman that isn't domineering, perhaps there is someone out there somewhere who likes AC/DC music and is submissive, dream on

[shazzababie]

looove AC/DC ..... whole lotta rosie and the jack aaaah i am gonna dig them out now and start remeniscing..... i aint submissive tho lol ...... i do more taking than giving but my man has the patience of a saint until he puts his foot down then i know he means business lol

[Ashley11]

everyone wants their own way. That's why it's called "their own way". It's impossible to want someone else's way

[QUOTE=shazzababie;71462]looove AC/DC ..... whole lotta rosie and the jack aaaah i am gonna dig them out now and start remeniscing..... i aint submissive tho lol ...... i do more taking than giving but my man has the patience of a saint until he puts his foot down then i know he means business lol [/QUOTE]

Looks like you have both got it all worked out just fine then, which is how it should be really. My marriage wasn't as well balanced as yours seems to be, my wife wasn't the perfect match for me, but we got on with each other as best we could

Yes I love AC/DC, been listening to 4 of their best albumns today, Back in Black, For Those About To Rock and Highway To Hell, and not forgetting High Voltage to !!
These albumns feature some of the best guitar playing and vocals ever, for a rock band in my opinion, and I have heard plenty over the years.