why do men not say what they want

You men say us women are strange but we talk about what we want from life which yes I will agree that yes it can b nagging but I want to know why you lads say you want one thing but then when you get that you change your mind then run. I was recently seein this lad he tells me Im exctly what he wants from girlfriend I dont nag I dont moan and very very rarely do I kick off he tells me he wants to move in with me, he loves me we make each other laugh want the same things from life but for some reason when I tell him I starting to fall for him he makes his excuses and basically runs a mile. only then a mth later he contacts me to tell me its over and I said ok no prob if thats wot u want then its ok with me. Then all of a sudden I start getting txt msgs off him tellin me he has been gettin **** off my best mate on particular day in town however that day my best mate was looking after me I dont understand he got wot he wanted and I was fine I didnt cry moan or plead for him to change his mind as at the end of day that wouldnt of been fair to him or me but all of a sudden does he want me back or is he just pissed off that I didnt beg him to stay? but also will someone tell me y u blokes do this pls? oh n also if us women do this which some do , then y are they labelled wit bein a bunny boiler?

[badbluey]

I think you got gender muddled with people.

This isn't a gender specific problem, it's a people specific problem.

People are people, each one of us is different......were are just people.
We all react differently and in our own way to situations. Accepting people for what they are and not believing they will or can be changed gives you a head start on knowing that it's how they will always be.

He wanted to play a game with you, you didn't play, he got the hump......you can already see where this would go in the future.

[pete8242]

he done u a favour

buy a dog
it will look at you always with love in its eyes
it will listen to your every word without interrupting
it will comfort you in times of need
it will never turn its nose up at your cooking
it will protect you to the death
it will clean the dishes for you (just leave them on the floor)
it will always be happy to see you
it wont come in drunk
it will never hurt you physically
and if you spread some pedigree chum on your lady bits..........well who needs a man eh?

[sukisue]

cus men never no wat they want or need and they cant keep it in there trousers

you have to remember that men have the mind of a five year old till they are at least 35, most of the time young guys only really want one thing sorry two things it and football down the pub or over the park.sorry this is just the way it is find a guy who doesn't like football and you may have half a chance good luck

[badbluey]

newjas.....what are you going on about i am over 40 and have a mental age of at least 12.

C'mon if your gonna try and tell us you know about blokes get it right......

[QUOTE=badbluey;38755]I think you got gender muddled with people.

This isn't a gender specific problem, it's a people specific problem.

People are people, each one of us is different......were are just people.
We all react differently and in our own way to situations. Accepting people for what they are and not believing they will or can be changed gives you a head start on knowing that it's how they will always be.

He wanted to play a game with you, you didn't play, he got the hump......you can already see where this would go in the future.[/QUOTE]

ive got agree with ya there hun,well said.

lmfaoooooooo pete brilliant!!

I think you did well enough with not playing along and i agree that perticular relationship would not be fun in time...

[badbluey]

[QUOTE=pete8242;38768]he done u a favour

buy a dog
it will look at you always with love in its eyes
it will listen to your every word without interrupting
it will comfort you in times of need
it will never turn its nose up at your cooking
it will protect you to the death
it will clean the dishes for you (just leave them on the floor)
it will always be happy to see you
it wont come in drunk
it will never hurt you physically
and if you spread some pedigree chum on your lady bits..........well who needs a man eh?
[/QUOTE]


Lend us a fiver pete, i can't afford pedigree chum

[QUOTE=newjas;38860]you have to remember that men have the mind of a five year old till they are at least 35, most of the time young guys only really want one thing sorry two things it and football down the pub or over the park.sorry this is just the way it is find a guy who doesn't like football and you may have half a chance good luck[/QUOTE]


good thing i just turned 35 then innit lol