y dont men think before they speak ?

[snowflake33]

[QUOTE=Keano;46152]I dunno women can be pretty bitchy at times more so than men...[/QUOTE]

there is nothing worse than bitchy women ..... and yeah they are the best at been bitchy

There is a old saying , but a very true one. " If you ever see three women talking , always feel sorry for the one who leaves first ". Nothing personal ladies !.

[snowflake33]

[QUOTE=caoineadh.cu.chulainn;46566]There is a old saying , but a very true one. " If you ever see three women talking , always feel sorry for the one who leaves first ". Nothing personal ladies !.[/QUOTE]

now that is a true saying ... think i'll make sure i never leave first in future

[QUOTE=snowflake33;46611]now that is a true saying ... think i'll make sure i never leave first in future

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The problem with that Snowflake , is if the other two have heard the same saying ! You could be talking for quite a while !.

I think men don't care really if they speak there mind us much as women does, therefore they normally will say what they think and will upset the sensitive around them|| I personally prefer those that do||
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Sweetpea

[QUOTE=Sweetpea;46756]I think men don't care really if they speak there mind us much as women does, therefore they normally will say what they think and will upset the sensitive around them|| I personally prefer those that do||
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I believe in speaking your mind , but I don't believe in hurting people by doing so. I honestly think that if there is something you want to say , but it would realy hurt someone by saying it , then don't say it !.
At the end of the day , there would be nothing to gain !

[snowflake33]

i think u should always speak ur mind, then ur not lying to urself or others

[QUOTE=snowflake33;46823]i think u should always speak ur mind, then ur not lying to urself or others

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Yes , I agree with you that you should always speak your mind , but what I am trying to say is that there are times when a little tact is called for. If you know for sure that a remark would rearly hurt somone , then I think it best that you don't say what you think . Of course there are some people that I would say exactly what I think of them , but these are few and far between , and they realy are completely obnoxious , so to those , I don't give a damn.

I do it because I generally don't care what the other person thinks and in a selfish way want to amuse myself.

[QUOTE=caoineadh.cu.chulainn;46741]The problem with that Snowflake , is if the other two have heard the same saying ! You could be talking for quite a while !.[/QUOTE]

Yeah well no change there then girls huh!!!!