would u do this?

[cheeky989]

ewwww that is wrong on sooooo many levels princess :P

[knightwhispers]

24 years of marriage has to account for something; if that's good, bad, indifferent or a mixture of all things. I don't think it's a case of what anyone would do; more a case of what *you* would do. Do you love him? Are you prepared to talk through the issue? Most importantly (and given the cir***stances) how do you feel about what he is doing? There will always be those who couldn't get through this in *exactly* the same way those who could get through this. The way forward is very much in your court.

Speak with him and ask him to be honest with you; there is no way ahead if he isn't going to be absolutely honest. From there it's down to what you will, or will not, tolerate. It's hardly a light situation or an easy obstacle and you need to really consider where you go from here ... but you can only begin to move forwards when you are fully aware of his issues and he tells you of his future intentions. From that point, it really is up to you in what you can or cannot deal with in moving ahead.

This is certainly no easy task; good luck to you.

~K~

[EDIT] How come it won't let me type C I R C U M S T A N C E S?