men!!

[pete8242]

nah were not haveing a domestic lol
were bantering
and hey any domestic on forums would be greatly appreciated
it might look like forums are busy then lmao

[sultry]

[QUOTE=pete8242;58623]nah were not haveing a domestic lol
were bantering
and hey any domestic on forums would be greatly appreciated
it might look like forums are busy then lmao[/QUOTE]

they are a bit dead at the mo aint they, think there is bigger numbers in chat lately so maybe the forums will be used more

[pete8242]

yer i like the forums as much as the chat
u get more time to think about an answer on the forums
we need to educate the new ppl on them tho
thats the difficult part

[sultry]

[QUOTE=pete8242;58625]yer i like the forums as much as the chat
u get more time to think about an answer on the forums
we need to educate the new ppl on them tho
thats the difficult part[/QUOTE]

yer but the thing is with most new people are that they seem to be only interested in mucky chat in pm and nothing else and so no interest in using the forums

[pete8242]

god yer.....shame innit
i was never very good at mucky chat so i never done it lol
perhaps they just dont use their intelligence or have none
maybe were too high brow in the forums lol

[sultry]

[QUOTE=pete8242;58627]god yer.....shame innit
i was never very good at mucky chat so i never done it lol
perhaps they just dont use their intelligence or have none
maybe were too high brow in the forums lol[/QUOTE]

lol high brow..yer thats it lol

[sultry]

[QUOTE=pete8242;58602]no cos
1 im too scared
and
2 if i do then shell get a big head and find someone better lmao[/QUOTE]

a rare gem...ur lucky, id tell her, life is tooo short..as u say it aint often ya find them..ive gave up looking lol im gonna be a bitter old spencer and spy on my neighbours lol

I guess when you are young you want to party hard and maybe aren't too interested in quality relationships. Saying that i'm not sure that is true. Teenagers and young *****s long for real intimacy all the time. I guess they see *** as the ultimate measure of intimacy, which it kind of is, if you have good ***. Saying that, real intimacy often comes from friendships and colleagues at work in a funny sort of way. I guess as you grow up you realize that you can't rely on one person for all your happiness.

[sultry]

[QUOTE=CosmikDebris;58679]I guess when you are young you want to party hard and maybe aren't too interested in quality relationships. Saying that i'm not sure that is true. Teenagers and young *****s long for real intimacy all the time. I guess they see *** as the ultimate measure of intimacy, which it kind of is, if you have good ***. Saying that, real intimacy often comes from friendships and colleagues at work in a funny sort of way. I guess as you grow up you realize that you can't rely on one person for all your happiness.[/QUOTE]

know what ur saying but i know loads of people that 'just have each other' and are so happy so maybe u can get all u need from one person if ur lucky enough to meet the right person.

Thanks for your reply. Yes I guess some people suit that kind of close relationship but it probably doesn't work for everyone. I guess the idea of having a soulmate can be appealing but it can have it's darker side, like people abandoning reason in order to commit to a marriage and having kids and ending up divorced and unhappy. Some people I have spoken to say divorce was the best thing that ever happened to them though. Some people see it as a relief, some as a trauma. People are so different so it's important not to be to rigid when deciding how you want to live your life.

I've met quite a lot of young wives with kids that are really unhappy because they feel they have chosen the wrong man or they wish they had their social life back. I think it is important to consider all the social factors in your life before committing to a close ***ual relationship or having children for that matter. This is just my point of view though there are lots of ways to find happiness. Finding that ideal partner and having kids could be the ideal solution. Obviously some of the time relationships fail because of external factors but I guess you learn from your mistakes more than from your successes.