young mum with kids

r men realy intrested in a realationship witha women if they have kids?

i think it all depends on the bloke, i had one went out with a girl who had a son, it was ok, but it ended over something silly.

I guess some blokes think if they have a relationship with a single mother then the chances of having a family of their own are severely lowered. but in some cases if a bloke has his own children it may work or doesnt want any of his own then maybe not.

thats my two cents anyways.

[sultry]

if someone loves u it doesnt matter if u had 26 childern...
unconditional love, sounds great, i wonder if it still exsists??

I think any answer, other than "it depends on the man", would be an unfair generalisation. As well as the type of man, it would probably also depend on their cir***stances, ie do they have children themselves, do they want children of their own etc. My brother was a single dad of one, met a lady with 3 kids of her own and they got together and have been happily married for 10 years, so it can happen and work really well.

lol ffs @ blocking circ u m stances!

ps Sultry hun - if someone had 26 kids, I expect they would be too knackered to get out of bed and meet anyone!

[pete8242]

if you fall for someone it doest matter what baggage theyve got
youve fell for them end of
the other stuff becomes immaterial
just someting you work around

[knightwhispers]

There is an old adage that says something like: "You can't choose your friends, your friends choose you" (something like that.) The same goes for love; we don't 'choose' to love someone, instead we falll into love.

That's life for you; there is an element of loss of control in a lot of what we do in life and relationships is no exception.

"Are men interested in a relationship with a woman if they have kids?"

As a specific question/thought by you and based on human behaviour ... of course they are; can *you* think of one good reason why they shouldn't be

~K~

It's a very tricky question and not quite as simple as it sounds.
There are lots of variables involved such as how far into the relationship were any kids mentioned?
Having said that, a woman is not expected to walk around with a label saying, "Single with kids".
I can only speak from personal experience on this subject by saying that I went out with a woman who had 2 kids.
We knew each other by sight to say "Hi" in passing before a first date was even mentioned and she said something along the lines of, "I'd love to but I need to be home by 11 to let the babysitter get home"
Well, there was a big clue about kids straight away. So we went on a date, to the Bingo, believe it or not, and we had a great time. I took her home but the kids were asleep by then and I just saw their heads.
Oh, I was 32 at the time and she was 33. The kids were 3 and 5.
We went on a few more dates, more conventional these times and then i went round one evening for tea with her and the kids.
It was when i saw how she was with the kids that I realised how wonderful this woman was.
Within 12 months we were married and a year later she had our third.
That was all just under 30 years ago and we are still together although the boys are now all married with kids of their own.

[queen swords]

Congrats 5tevie ... I met my hubby when i was 17 , was married at 18... had my 1st child at 18
had another 3 children , then was blessed with 4 beautiful grankids.
Will be our 31st wedding anaversary this coming March.
Had our fair share of ups and downs , but i think thats what makes us who we are , would not change a thing and would do it all over again , Gwad if my hubby reads this his ruddy head will grow soooo big it might explode lol.

[jazzy]

When i met Gaz, i had been divorced for 2 years , so was a single parent with 4 kids,he had 2 kids
i had only known him for 13 days and he moved in, that was 12 years ago we now have 2 more beautiful kids together and life couldnt be better. i got him trained well now lol x