advice needed

[shazzababie]

[QUOTE=pete8242;60233]evryones all sweet and nice behind the keyboard
but away from it
theyre a nasty selfish peice of work
theres a reason why ppl are single
and its for this reason they should remain single[/QUOTE]



lol pete i aint nasty or selfish away from the keyboard............

[pete8242]

lol no your not shazza
your loverly
a bit tipsy but loverly lol

ner]ver ever meat peope that you dont know get to know them 1st and see what happend also never give out perosn nfo out.... trust me it not worth the risk at alll...

[pennybel]

True dubz!!! People are not always what they seem!! They can say anything on here to lead people on!! But they are the sad ones!!! xxxx

[scotsprincess]

yes dubz dont ever meet anyone you have met in here coz she could be a nutter !!!!

I been there and worn the **** is not nice lead peopel on.. i learn that yu need gte to them and knwo they are honets and they are the gernal perosn.. evey on know me and they tell i am i am nice person.. and i never lie or cheat.. I be work for 2 years now... and I do enjoy chat to people thought.. it liek been with a big family and have a joke and laods fun lol

It is never "safe" to meet somebody that you have only chatted to on a forum, no matter how good that forum may be.
You can do your best to make it as safe as you can by telling your friends where you are going and even telling the mods on the forum who you are meeting etc. You can even arrange with a friend to call them if all is going nicely and to NOT call them if you are worried about how things are going.
All these things make it easier to catch this guy but they don't stop you from being dead.
I know that was a bit brutal and in your face but it's how it happens.
Much better was a system we had in place in another forum that I was on, one that has now, sadly, more or less died because of the way that the format of the forum was changed.
We had group meetings 3 or 4 times a year. It was a country-wide forum so there would be meetings in York, Manchester, Birmingham, Bristol, London and Exeter and you went to whichever was nearest to your home or which you were prepared to travel to. There would be upwards of 40 people at the London venue which was one of the pubs overlooking Covent Garden and a great time was had by all. It was at one of the Covent Garden meets that a young lady and I belted out Cinderella/Rockafella on the pub's balcony (you are all probably to young to remember that one) which gives us the right to say that we have sung at Covent Garden.
Anyway, the point was that we got to meet other folk from the forum without putting anyone at risk and a great time was had by all.