jus an idea on wot to do

ok right here goes..will explain the best i can..on woc chat we have an option to allow or deny a friend request on our home page..those on woc will no wot i mean.. well why not have the same option for addys..ie sum 1 sends u a request for ur stuff an then u have the option to allow or refuse it.. make it secure so no 1 but the person u gave access to can see it.. it may stop ppl talkin in code an givin addys out in forums an chat room an yes i no its a non contact site but i am jus tryin to help wiv ideas on how to make it better for every1 so dont go rantin at me..at least im tryin.. am jus thinkin of ways to make it a good place for every 1 ok u may get bombarded wiv requests but ya jus deny them access the same as ya do wiv the friends request..hope that made sence..as i think its sum thing to think about..if it stops ppl talkin in code an swappin in rooms an forums its gotta be a good thing aint it??.. if we can fix 1 problem at a time its a step in the right way aint it..

Its a good idea but is it one on the road to a free for all room and all that it entails as was so elequently pointed out by woccy on one of his posts. But I'm certainly not going to knock you for having ideas, at least one of us is having them

hmmm it is good in theory,but could you really be bothered with a request popping up every 5 mins?but I know what you're geting at though dazz xx

[pete8242]

what wocs getting at is this
if you talk on *** you aint talking in woc
why bother haveing it as a chat site then?
just have it as an addy swap shop

they dont want that
we dont want that
and it aint safe
anyone in that room could be anyone
just cos they say there james from truro doesnt mean there james from truro
and james from truro could be a psycho anyway
keep in mind that most serial killers were normal upstanding citizens

I think it's great that you're coming up with constructive ideas dazz... however, even if admin took the decision to allow swapping of details, would you really want every tom **** and harry coming into the room and clicking that option for every chatter in there - we already get that with cams and u know how annoying that is... imagine having cam requests, addy requests and pm requests - all popping up from ppl u don't know and who haven't even spoken in the room. Very quickly this would become one of 'those' sites... and none of us want that.

Yer head must be getting pretty cold now, without having me sat on it? lol

<sigh> i miss chat

no i dont mean in the chat room itself i mean on ya home profile page where we get comment alerts an new msg alerts an friends requests in that bit i ment not in room that wud be daft.. wen we go to ure home page in wocchat i ment..its jus a thought ..but i hate to say this but sum1s got to..im jus worried that if rooms open again wiv no changes. then a few months down the road we gonna be right back here avin the same probs..an then i really dont see admin openin ever again..now i dont want to be the doom n gloom guy iv bin tryin real hard to find ways to help waitin for ppl to *** up wiv tweeks to my ideas or new ideas.as i think a lot of us if we really think about it are gonna say yea we will end up in the same situation..down the road..ya not gonna change the way ppl are..there will always be numptys about we jus gotta find a happy middle ground that works for every1 as i think every1 is peed at rooms bein closed..and again i dont blame admin for doin it.. i jus dont no wot else to do..i like to get me hed round things an find out stuff.. i thought it was a good idea if it can be worked right..it may stop ppl talkin in code in there an here to. no1 see it an ya dont av to accept it..if we can tackle 1 prob at a time an get it cracked then in time this will be the site we all enjoy so much an we wont be back here again..oh i dont no..am goin bed now cuz me brain is sore,,,

so long as it's just yer brain that's sore...... lol