confused an upset

after every thing thats gone off in the last couple of days i wud not blame admin at all if they closed it...we all had time to put are views an ideas across but it seemed sum ppl jus wanted to bash an argue an jump all over other ppl rather than be positive about the place and as this is a community site each and every 1 of us has to take the blame regardless as to how little or long ya bin on here or weather ya think ya done anything wrong or not..if it closes then dont go pointin fingers at other ppl we av to point them at ourselfs..all of us..new or regs.. im pretty low at the mo an very upset an confused about it all now..iv spent alot of time on woc chat pimpin me profile an postin in the forums tryin to get ppl involved..and for wot.. ok iv gotta raise me hand an say im partly to blame for the server goin wonky awhile back got carried away wiv me songs so like i say we all need to shoulder the blame... i was in chat room earlier an it felt horrible such an atmosphere an i didnt feel welcome at all so i jus sat back an watched..an i was really shocked to see all these ppl sproutin ideas left right an centre..cuz the room was open...wot the hell av these last few days bin about!!! im really confussed,,now i dont want to leave,get banned or for it to close down but avin gone thru every1 of these posts again on here then if they did we wud only av ourselvs to thank for it..sorry its so long im not as eloquent as a lot of u..why not close chat room for a week an jus leave forums open an woc chat open an see if ppl really do care or weather they go back to moanin an beatin ya down..i no i may upset sum ppl wiv wot iv sed here but this is where i thought ya came to put ya point across..so please feel free to bash me for wrightin this..im not pointin the finger at any 1 person as u cant do that we all to blame in sum way..well thats it from me im gonna go bed cuz im jus to depressed to care at the min which i mite add is not me at all ..so goodnight an sleep well but plz feel free to put ya own views to this ...
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[COLOR="Magenta"][SIZE="3"]Well said Dazz,i said in 1 of my posts it just cant be all down to 1 person for all of this mess,we all need to work together and help this site as admin can only do so much ....
We have to include newbies and regulars into the Woc comunity and to do so we need to be understanding and supportive to each other instead of battling against one another.....[/SIZE][/COLOR]

hmmm i see a lot of ppl readin an not many replyin..but thanks sue for your reply

yeah well said dazz we all need to do our bit to keep this place alive lets hope it works dont know what id do without woc

Maybe what you've said Dazz has made ppl sit back and think
I only post in the forums and play in the Arcade ...I dont go into chat
Lets just hope it can get back to normal for those who like to go into the chatroom
Rules are there for a reason ..If rules are broken Consequenses (dont know if thats spelt right ) happen
Theres that many threads going at the moment about all this trouble ppl are at a loss as what to put anymore !
Its a shame the odd few spoil it for the majority

[QUOTE=dazz69;30733]after every thing thats gone off in the last couple of days i wud not blame admin at all if they closed it...we all had time to put are views an ideas across but it seemed sum ppl jus wanted to bash an argue an jump all over other ppl rather than be positive about the place and as this is a community site each and every 1 of us has to take the blame regardless as to how little or long ya bin on here or weather ya think ya done anything wrong or not..if it closes then dont go pointin fingers at other ppl we av to point them at ourselfs..all of us..new or regs.. im pretty low at the mo an very upset an confused about it all now..iv spent alot of time on woc chat pimpin me profile an postin in the forums tryin to get ppl involved..and for wot.. ok iv gotta raise me hand an say im partly to blame for the server goin wonky awhile back got carried away wiv me songs so like i say we all need to shoulder the blame... i was in chat room earlier an it felt horrible such an atmosphere an i didnt feel welcome at all so i jus sat back an watched..an i was really shocked to see all these ppl sproutin ideas left right an centre..cuz the room was open...wot the hell av these last few days bin about!!! im really confussed,,now i dont want to leave,get banned or for it to close down but avin gone thru every1 of these posts again on here then if they did we wud only av ourselvs to thank for it..sorry its so long im not as eloquent as a lot of u..why not close chat room for a week an jus leave forums open an woc chat open an see if ppl really do care or weather they go back to moanin an beatin ya down..i no i may upset sum ppl wiv wot iv sed here but this is where i thought ya came to put ya point across..so please feel free to bash me for wrightin this..im not pointin the finger at any 1 person as u cant do that we all to blame in sum way..well thats it from me im gonna go bed cuz im jus to depressed to care at the min which i mite add is not me at all ..so goodnight an sleep well but plz feel free to put ya own views to this ...
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You cant win em all dazz. i think ppl are just happy to have the chatrooms open again. i know that i have posted on here with regards to the chatrooms but to be honest it is vary rare that i go in them. i agree that we should all take the blame to a certain degree as it is a community site and no-one is perfect. lets see how things go for the time being, you never know there may have been a few lessons learned by closing the chatrooms but only time will tell.

I agree dazz.Its not all down to 1 person but to the lot of us but,the attitudes and disregard to the rules by certain individuals have caused all this.
I say this because we only know what has been posted in the forums no-one or not everyone knows exactly what went on in here?ie me not a scooby!And yes admin have every right to sit back and re-think is this really worth it?We all want to help and we all want woccy to stay open but we need a little clue on what actually happened?Or am I being cheeky asking?
C'mon woccy woccy woo please come back to work please!!!!!!!

[QUOTE=dazz69;30749]hmmm i see a lot of ppl readin an not many replyin..but thanks sue for your reply[/QUOTE]

sorry dazzy, but I've put me views on many of the other threads and I'm bored of debating it now...

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yer its boring the sh1t out of me now
its beginning to resemble a race to see who can crawl the furthest up admins arse

well simple answer dont read them...a....we aint all the same are we..some ppl do actually care about these sites an the ppl on them......and obviously sum dont... but wot can i say.....hmmm nothin as i am done wiv time wasters..