what would you do?

what would you do if you found a text message your boyfriend sent to another girl saying
" your not fat! your only 7 stone your Gorgeous!"

this is a message i found on his phone this morning! how he knows how much this girl weighs is beyond me! but to call her gorgeous!! im annoyed

we have been together 6 yrs and im so hurt by the message!
what would you do??

[hunnybabe]

well firstly i don`t know why you were looking at his phone, but since you were and you`ve found this message i would have it out with him.
ask him what it`s about- until you do it will always be there in the back of your mind.
nothing ventured, nothing gained- just ask him.

[shazzababie]

i agree now u have seen it u have to ask him but first i wuld take a copy of the number as u might need it if u r gonna probe further !!!

Picture the scene.
Girl sobbing her heart out and threatening to kill herself because she thinks she is to fat.
In reality, she isn't fat, she just THINKS she's fat.
You, as a sensible person, know that most of the problem is down to a lack of self esteem.
You give her your number and she phones you in a real downer of a mood.
You reply to the text saying that she's not fat at all, She weighs 7 stone and she's gorgeous.
Your fella finds it and accuses you of being a lesbian.
Is he right to think that way or is he being stupid?

Now turn all that around to the way it really is.
I ain't saying that's how it happened but it's an innocent possibility to consider before you blow your top.

[shazzababie]

lol Stevie - i dont agree...if my man texts a female and says ur not fat ur 7 stone and gorgeous he is getting his meat n 2 veg cut off..... I;m the one he shuld be texting saying stuff like that not any other female lol and i wuld be so peed of at the 7 stone cow lol x

[tommysize1]

im with steve
maybe shes some crazed anorexic girl....who might have the hots for ur BF

innocent untill proven guilty

[shazzababie]

i think u blokes r sticking together cos u know what he is up to..... !!

well, it looks bad doesnt it? if he know her weight, why? and saying she is gorgeos is flirting end of! so u are left with the option of confronting him, otherwise you will go mad wondering, however does he know you snooped on his phone?

[tommysize1]

you need a good excuse for why you looked on his phone.

set an alarm on it. then say you was trying to turn off the alarm.
wow thats a bad excuse.... dont use that one.

[roobaby]

If I found out someone was looking at my phone I would be really, really annoyed. Why did you feel the need to look at his phone? Have you had suspicions? If you have then that in itself is a problem. By all means confront him but be ready with your response when he asks "Why were you looking at my phone?" It's obvious you don't trust him and now he won't trust you. Six years or sixty years together, everyone has the right to some privacy. And let's get this clear, how ever long you have been with someone, and think you know everything about them, the truth is you will only ever know 95% tops. Anyone who thinks lives on Planet Zog.