My mate ( I know you won't believe me)

Well her boyfriend has decided that he doesn't know if he wants the commitment of her and her child.

I told her that I would only let him have a week to make up his mind, what do you reckon?

I'm no expert in these matters, in fact I'm probably the entirely wrong person to pass comment, but:

It is an enormous undertaking and I think it right that its raised as a concern. You don't want a knee jerk reaction and act at once. Its a decision that will affect both of them so it should be discussed by both as sensible *****s.

[pete8242]

its a big decision for him
a least hes being honest

the ony way she can really rush his decision is..............
put on a french maids outfit
and talk incessently about wanting to try really outrageous kinky stuff

if he still dont wanna know
im always available lol

Well' he's gone, she has given him 5 days to return home, if he isn't home by then she is ending the relationship.

If the child is not his then it is a big decision to make as it can lead to conflict between a partner and the biological father.