What do i do?

My boyfriend is being posted down to England after xmas,what do i do?
He seems keen on me and i on him ,but he will be away for 2yrs! b/f wants to come up at weekends etc .....do i let it continue or let him go?

depends on how much you love him, luv. is it worth waiting for him for, seeing him only on weekends?

tha's something only you can answer, and you have to be honest with yourself. if you don't think it's going to work, you should be straight up with him; he'll be hurt but he'll get over it.

y'know, i was in the military, and though i was never in a serious relationship while in there, i felt sorry for the poor fools who got "dear john" letters. it's bad enough to have to be stationed far from a loved one, having to be concentrating on work, wondering what you're doing, then to get something like that...

it' one of three choices, doc, commit, cheat, or let him go. but be honest with yourself, if you can't be honest with him.

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Never have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

^^^good reply riffraff
If he's only away from Mon to Fri thats not too bad ...If you think a lot about one another the distance does'nt matter ...just think about the making up for it on the weekend's

Thankyou riffraff xxx i do luv him ...alot ,but whats worrying me is if he strays whens he is away,he may think he doesnt want to settle with a single mum of 2! Where as he may perfer a loose women.....
I think i will have a heart to heart with him ,i just hope he doesnt think im saying he will cheat on me though.

if you two really love each other, maybe y'all owe it to yourselves to try to to make it work.

if he wanted to stray,he would, even if he never left.

i'm sure he's concerned about you straying, too. have y'all talked about it yet?

good luck, doc.

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Never have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

[shazzababie]

if its for you it wont go by you..... give it a try and see how it goes !!

hey sue hun - long time no see... hope yer well

have u considered moving to england with him?

[pete8242]

buy him one of them pulsating vagina things you can get now
and superglue your own pubic hair (complete with lice) round it
that way he will always have a "bit" with you if he wants it
and he can get you a dehydrated garden worm for the same experience

pete pete pete hehehheheheheh