Am i overreacting??

Me n my bf are in a long distance relationship since we live 5 hours apart and im at uni - its difficult to say the least but we both want this to work.

i fel stupid even asking about this cos i know i'm probably just overreacting but i havent spoken to him properly since sat 15th and its now sat 22nd. his phone has been cut off so he's not been able to get in contact but i've rung him everyday and he's not answered.

before when we've had problems or arguements i know he's purposefully ignored me but everything was fine last time we spoke, so i dont understand whats going on - ive even left him a text saying that i miss him and to let me know when his phone is sorted.

i know theres probably nothing to worry about - he's a typical bloke, normally does his own thing without thinking first and needs a kick up the backside every now and then but i know he loves me and cares about me, we had this conversation last time we spoke.

i guess im just looking for reassurance that everythings ok, i get paranoid v. easily. i dont really know what to think or what to do - shall i keep ringing, text him, leave him an email or what???

sorry for the long spiel - ta for reading and any advice gratefully recieved xxx

hmmm id say jus leave him to it..let him get in touch wiv u wen he is ready..there may be all kinds of reasons why he aint bin in touch an the last thing u wanna do is piss him off wiv constant msgs..if he cares about you he will get in touch..jus try not to get so strung out about it...

Hmmm long distance relationships are hard to deal with and they need extra work because you are unable to see each other all the time.

I'm sure he has been trying to get as much of his work load out the way so he can be with you for christmas, like dazz said don't keep bombarding him with calls and messages, he will be in touch when he is able.

If the worst comes to the worst and you find you have to face the possibility that he no longer wants your relationship to continue for whatever reason, then you will at least know you did what you could to keep the relationship going......if that happens don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened in the first place, the sun will come out again and you will move on....good luck.

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hes been very busy
snorting coke from the bare backsides of "freshers"
im sure he will phone when hes got over his heavy comedown
and cant drink cos hes on antibiotics for some little ailment hes caught
like gunnorhea or something

Hmm ta for that pete, very helpful

Hi Lexi, I have to say that I agree with wot Lynx and Dazz have said. Give him time to get in touch with you, don't keep sending him messages or phoning him as he will get pissed off and start thinking that you don't trust him.

[pete8242]

[QUOTE=jaydee;35311]Hi Lexi, I have to say that I agree with wot pete has said. Give him time to get in touch with you, don't keep sending him messages or phoning him as he will get pissed off and start thinking that you don't trust him.[/QUOTE]

why thank you jaydee

[QUOTE=pete8242;35313]why thank you jaydee
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pete you fiend you changed my words

[pete8242]

[QUOTE=jaydee;35321]pete you fiend you changed my words [/QUOTE]

lol@feind

i never knew that one word could tottaly describe me
but you found it
well done babes

Aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Its so frustrating! i hate just waiting and waiting. the more i wait the more i think about what mightve happened, is he annoyed with me??

Everythings probably fine, ill probably talk to him soon and he'll ask what all the fuss is about, but its unfair to just leave me especially as we dont see each very often as it is, and i cant help worrying that something is wrong

I need to talk to him bout this but cant when i cant contact him!!! aaaaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!