Hmm rebound or not?

OK well pretty much the whole story is in my two blogs if ya wish to have a look see but to cut a long story short...

Split up with bf bout ten days ago, now i know its definatey over and i feel like i'm over him. We split up after 6 weeks of being together before and i hated it and really wanted him back and was so happy when we got back together. This time is different tho i dont want him back at all, don't even want to hear from him.

Now, theres this guy who i met when i was with my bf a few months ago, we chatted a bit and had loads in common and we had a sort of 'i think i'm starting to like you' conversation, coming from both sides.

Now i'm single again, i wanna get back in contact as we havent spoken for months and see where it goes. Onviously i wanna take it slowly but just wanna know if he's interested and if theres any possibility. I told msyelf i would wait til after xmas to ask but i hate waiting.

I'm not sure if this a rebound or not. I'm not after just anyone to give me love and attention, i like this guy and always have, but a) i dont want him to think he's just a rebound and b) i dont wanna suddenyl change my mind and end up hurting him.

I know i should wait to give me time to think things out but i'm pretty sure bout this, and don't to waste time. Tbh i'm not really sure what i want to achieve from posting this, just any advice at all??

[QUOTE=Lexi99;36414]OK well pretty much the whole story is in my two blogs if ya wish to have a look see but to cut a long story short...

Split up with bf bout ten days ago, now i know its definatey over and i feel like i'm over him. We split up after 6 weeks of being together before and i hated it and really wanted him back and was so happy when we got back together. This time is different tho i dont want him back at all, don't even want to hear from him.

Now, theres this guy who i met when i was with my bf a few months ago, we chatted a bit and had loads in common and we had a sort of 'i think i'm starting to like you' conversation, coming from both sides.

Now i'm single again, i wanna get back in contact as we havent spoken for months and see where it goes. Onviously i wanna take it slowly but just wanna know if he's interested and if theres any possibility. I told msyelf i would wait til after xmas to ask but i hate waiting.

I'm not sure if this a rebound or not. I'm not after just anyone to give me love and attention, i like this guy and always have, but a) i dont want him to think he's just a rebound and b) i dont wanna suddenyl change my mind and end up hurting him.

I know i should wait to give me time to think things out but i'm pretty sure bout this, and don't to waste time. Tbh i'm not really sure what i want to achieve from posting this, just any advice at all??[/QUOTE]

Personally I would give myself some time to think things through properly before making any decisions, but that's me. If this is something you feel you are unable to do then you could maybe let him know that you are single again but leave it at that and if he is interested in anything more than friendship let him come to you. Whatever you do don't go chasing him as it may scare him off and you could end up losing his friendship too. Please make sure that this is what you really want before you say anything to him. It's not much in the way of advice but I hope it helps you with your dilemma.

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yep just let him now u r single an free but dont chase him if he is interested he will let u no ok.

[QUOTE=Lexi99;36414]OK well pretty much the whole story is in my two blogs if ya wish to have a look see but to cut a long story short...

Split up with bf bout ten days ago, now i know its definatey over and i feel like i'm over him. We split up after 6 weeks of being together before and i hated it and really wanted him back and was so happy when we got back together. This time is different tho i dont want him back at all, don't even want to hear from him.

Now, theres this guy who i met when i was with my bf a few months ago, we chatted a bit and had loads in common and we had a sort of 'i think i'm starting to like you' conversation, coming from both sides.

Now i'm single again, i wanna get back in contact as we havent spoken for months and see where it goes. Onviously i wanna take it slowly but just wanna know if he's interested and if theres any possibility. I told msyelf i would wait til after xmas to ask but i hate waiting.

I'm not sure if this a rebound or not. I'm not after just anyone to give me love and attention, i like this guy and always have, but a) i dont want him to think he's just a rebound and b) i dont wanna suddenyl change my mind and end up hurting him.

I know i should wait to give me time to think things out but i'm pretty sure bout this, and don't to waste time. Tbh i'm not really sure what i want to achieve from posting this, just any advice at all??[/QUOTE]

The reason you are not bothered if your ex contacts you again or not is because you are fantasing about this "new love" and where it can go, its a sad fact that imaginations run wild and tend to be less "wild!" when you eventually get with them, why do you think that so many "love stories" are sold across the world?? ..my advice is forget it have a break, find yourself, if he wants you he will wait, and maybe if your very lucky might even WOO you .GOOD LUCK

everybody needs time to get over a broken relationship. take time to reflect and then if u still think that u wud like to meet him again then do it.
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Sweetpea

Have a break!! Guys take up all our time; get out with your girlfriends and have some fun time for yourself.

There are plenty of guys out there - you'll know when you want one because you'll be fed up of been single. You'll start to want to meet guys again.

From your post - it sounds like your unsure so I'd leave it till you know...

[QUOTE=Claudia;36515]Have a break!! Guys take up all our time; get out with your girlfriends and have some fun time for yourself.

There are plenty of guys out there - you'll know when you want one because you'll be fed up of been single. You'll start to want to meet guys again.

From your post - it sounds like your unsure so I'd leave it till you know...[/QUOTE]

honey| go and celebrate been single and then later wonder about been with someone again|| Most definitely||
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Sweetpea