intervention

hi, my problem is this, i have two online friends who are a gay couple, (male) and they are always breaking up, and then making up, i have tried to help them resolve their problems as i care about them both, but they dont listen to any advice i give them, (there is a third party in the relationship that is causing friction)should i carry on trying to intervene, or let them get on with it, i am due to visit them in august for a birthday wk end, but im not sure if i should go with this situation going on, their arguements sometimes result in violence, (one punching the other etc) id appreciate any advice as i dont know what to do for the best, i love them both to bits, but it is getting me down. ty

[hunnybabe]

let them get on with it- they obviously don`t care about your opinion and take no notice so if i were you i`d give up.

as for going to see them for the weekend- if you really feel it`s not going to go well then don`t go. why go and have a bad time? you`ll just end up stuck in the middle and may end up having to choose sides.

maybe have a word with them seperately- if that doesn`t work then i`d give up.
but that`s just my opinion- good luck with whatever you decide to do.

[Nygyl]

[QUOTE=hunnybabe;56094]let them get on with it- they obviously don`t care about your opinion and take no notice so if i were you i`d give up.

as for going to see them for the weekend- if you really feel it`s not going to go well then don`t go. why go and have a bad time? you`ll just end up stuck in the middle and may end up having to choose sides.

maybe have a word with them seperately- if that doesn`t work then i`d give up.
but that`s just my opinion- good luck with whatever you decide to do.[/QUOTE]

Totally agree with Hunny, they obviously don't value any opinion you give or care about you to be blunt. Let them get on with it. They'll probably get on better knowing that they won't have an audience to argue to.

[pete8242]

why dont they just have a threesome and be done with it?
oh
sorry
i had absolutley no idea that the third person involved was mans best freind
pmfsl

[sukisue]

just let them get on with it an hope ya dont get roped into the threesome then it will be a foursome pmsl

[sukisue]

or ask pete to be referee lol

[sultry]

[QUOTE=white horse;56087]hi, my problem is this, i have two online friends who are a gay couple, (male) and they are always breaking up, and then making up, i have tried to help them resolve their problems as i care about them both, but they dont listen to any advice i give them, (there is a third party in the relationship that is causing friction)should i carry on trying to intervene, or let them get on with it, i am due to visit them in august for a birthday wk end, but im not sure if i should go with this situation going on, their arguements sometimes result in violence, (one punching the other etc) id appreciate any advice as i dont know what to do for the best, i love them both to bits, but it is getting me down. ty[/QUOTE]

for goodness sake let them get on with it....i take it this is the first time ur meeting up with them as they are ur 'on-line friends', if it was me i would stay clear of them...all sounds a bit jermey kylish

stay clear from the on/off relationship , in the end it will be your fault lol

best is to be friends with both and tell them they have to sought themselves out ,,,you listen to both but don't give advice lmao