confused

does going on a webiste to watch a member of the other *** playing with themselves class as cheating? my partner has been doing that and i dont know what emotion to feel..

[shazzababie]

i would class it as maybe curiosity unless they join in then its cheating

[tommysize1]

id be pissed off.

but i think id just openly start watching **** to try to make them feel like me.

what if they take videos of the person on screen doing it though?

small its just **** really, unless there iniating it or getting involved then you've got nothing to worry about

[Forger]

You can't class it as cheating as no physical contact can take place, that doesn't mean it may be any less upsetting or offensive to a partner that thinks it's wrong.

[roobaby]

Tricky one this. If it is upsetting you then you should tell him. I doubt it will make him stop but at least he will know how you feel. Failing that, suggest that you sit with him next time he goes 'exploring' and enjoy watching him squirm! If he says that it is just a bit of fantasy then he shouldn't mind you joining in the party. But seriously, I think it is more common than you think, so try not to worry about it too much. If you feel that there are other areas of your partnership which are secretive then I do think you need to start asking more questions, and remember, it works both ways.

[Forger]

[QUOTE=roobaby;63915]Tricky one this. If it is upsetting you then you should tell him. I doubt it will make him stop but at least he will know how you feel. Failing that, suggest that you sit with him next time he goes 'exploring' and enjoy watching him squirm! If he says that it is just a bit of fantasy then he shouldn't mind you joining in the party. But seriously, I think it is more common than you think, so try not to worry about it too much. If you feel that there are other areas of your partnership which are secretive then I do think you need to start asking more questions, and remember, it works both ways.[/QUOTE]

Wow Roo, you almost sounded sensible there.

[sukisue]

ooohhhhhh naughty naughty pmsl

[roobaby]

I do have my moments Forger..... about twice a year, lol.