The System and THEY Failing Us

Services such as Teachers reason why some of us have failed and left School with no qualifications cause the Teachers and other services that help them out fail to recognise problems when we go through problems we face when we use to be kids and teenagers Teachers and services see as behaviour problems or mentil illnesses when it's not it's called development when we're at that age then they beat us up for it. Is it every wonder why we fail School and no qualifications.

Just cause their minds may change or their character may change when your a certain age doesn't mean it's mentil illnesses it's cause we're growing up and leaving behind childish things.

When we're a kid we think like a kid when we become *****s we throw away childish things and that is true.

If you watch Doctor Who an adventure called The Curse Of Fenric Starring Sylvester McCoy that was on Tele in 1989 and that is what the Vicor said played by Nicholas Parsons in the Curse Of Fenric.

They don't take you away cause of dangerous parents my gran did things like that towards me when I was a kid once I said stick and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me and you know what she did threw sticks at me and got others to come and she treated it like a crime through them. I never got taken away to a place of safety mind you in someways I glad I didn't get taken away like that cause you leave one place only to get treated the same or worse.

When I wrote a help letter once some services thought it was from someone else writing about me doing that when I wrote the letter.

The system is a joke.

The system is a right laugh. I'm laughing at it Ha! Ha!

I've got no qualifications neither I don't need qualifications where on earth are you gonna get qualifications from if they keep asking have you got any qualifications when haven't got any.

[shazzababie]

erm u culd get em by going back to studying

[pete8242]

hes right
time and time again the social services fail in their duties to protect vulnerable children
do they answer to their crimes?
do they heck
the social services are run by uncareing pompous twats who shouldnt be put in charge of themselves never mind the safety and security of children

burn the feckin lot of them i say

The system is all we got... without it; it'd be worse.

Its not perfect nor will it ever get close but there is no simple answers to anything. There are 60+ million of us in this country and it takes great effort to try and keep our country civilised.

Education is not key; I believe Sir Alan Sugar and Richard Branson prove that. All I hear are excuses from people as to why their lifes are ****... not what they are doing to make it better.

Re social services:
I imagine there are many people within Social services who witness tremendous tradegy so frequently and yet they work with passion and endeavour to make peoples lifes as best they can be from a bad situation. So it is a slap in the face that one sad tradgic story gains all the headlines yet the thousands of good deeds performed by these services go untold...
Mistakes have been made and they must learn and try to prevent it happening again - but it gives no-one the right to just say... they are rubbish

(Quote) Mistakes have been made lessons should be learnt from that (Unquote)

And guess who will walk away free from that tradegy I know the answer to that one when they was there.

I know they do that kind of thing still THEY get away with it they'd get away with murder cause it's them and no body thinks that they could do it.

Evidence is there now their trying to work out what happened.

That doesn't work with me.

Let's leave that to them to sort out I just knew it. I knew it.

We do need a system though this system we've got is by far not a system we thought it to be.

If I had my own Son & Daughter I wouldn't ask Social Services for help not after what I've seen on the News and experienced my self.

I wouldn't want my own Son & Daughter not in this ****ed up world.

[pete8242]

[QUOTE=Claudia;35005]The system is all we got... without it; it'd be worse.



Re social services:
I imagine there are many people within Social services who witness tremendous tradegy so frequently and yet they work with passion and endeavour to make peoples lifes as best they can be from a bad situation. So it is a slap in the face that one sad tradgic story gains all the headlines yet the thousands of good deeds performed by these services go untold...
Mistakes have been made and they must learn and try to prevent it happening again - but it gives no-one the right to just say... they are rubbish[/QUOTE]

im sorry
but we all have the right to say what we feel
we fought 2 god damn wars for the right of free thinking
and i for one use this right every minute of the day
even if i dont have a brain

(Quote) Free Thinking (Unquote)

I'm not saying their all bad it's just a shame that the bad ones in those services get away with it more often than the victim for going through things that are naughty or natural when your young though it's not illegal just naughtiness when we use to be kids and teenagers we would have been too at one time. Not done out of illegal things. I lie sometimes only to protect my self from getting beaten up like before cause I know that telling the truth hurts oh boy it sure does and we get beaten up for telling the truth well I did for that no matter what I don't know about you I'm just keeping my shut cause I know what would happen from them if I had my own Son & Daughter.

I'm not bothered what I did that got me into trouble at School when I was age 16 back in 1993 it's the system what their doing to us first I just got mixed up in it all cause of moving to live with my grandparents in another area that I'm not originally from and if my mum wasn't ill in Bradford where I'm originally from Bradford back in 1985 I'd have lived with her still and wouldn't have got sent to that School in another area in the first place by my grandparents. That's what my future would have stayed as in Bradford if my mum was alright just one of those things. Life is cruel. I'm more concerned about the system these services run yet they go and do that to us to get us into that fix for them to put us into care when we haven't had hardly anytime to develope our balance walk and character and attitude which does take time years before we know ourselfs better than them. Am not trying to get it politically correct for anyone just my views and comments and concerns and one thing I'm sure is very worried about it not worried about my past that's nothing to do with this message or now. What I'm trying to say is if you take that away then you'll have no deaths in the hands of Social Services and Carers.

What I don't like is that his parents get called dangerous yet look what that Carer and the two Social Workers did to him now it's the other way round yet they don't get put in care and he did when he's not dangerous nor anything seriously mentilly wrong with him. That's why I don't like those type of Staff. I don't see those Staff getting called dangerous do you? After them killing him yes they are the ones that are dangerous not his parents.

The system is rotten to the core.

We're all ****ed up.