Dont Judge and Goodbye

[randomjelly]

Right, firstly i would like to say last night i was having an on going joke with a woc friend i was on the phone to them telling htem what i was saying in the room about scottishkim etc and we were having a giggle about it, after wards i left the room and my woc friend came in, and a few woccers decided to stick there nose in and make a good situation into something awful by basically calling me a bully and a sh1t stirrer which is charming when it was said after i left, if you weren't happy about the situation why not say there and then? this is all very trivial to be fair as its just woccers being woccers, but i will not have me made otu to be a bully or a sh1t stirrer as i am far from either, but u dont know that as known of you know me at all... even scottish kim advised you all to "switch a light on and lighten up" as the people involved found it funny, i wasnt being a bully or a sh1t stirrer as i was on the phone to my woc friend at the time. So i think the said woccers who decided to make this judgement just made the situation worse so i think that would make them the sh1t stirrers, so please dont judge me u dont know me, maybe instead of judging someone you dont know why dont u take a long hard look at yourself, who basically got suck into something that they knew nothing about... its just ridiculous, i would also like to mention that i am leaving woc and if any woc "friends" that want to keep in touch i already have another way of contacting you, and all the woc "friends" who i don't have contact with im sorry but im sure we can catch up soon.
I think the lesson here, is when "regs" n "hosts" club together and decide they dont like someone after 3 years of chatting they will gang up on you and make you look like a piece of sh1t !!
chow the now

xxxxx

[numbnutz]

I blame Kim entirely.... if she wasnt so entertaining this would never have happened........
And I agree whole heartedly with your sentiment. No one even asked what was going on before they started throwing around the accusations. Room hosts should be impartial. They should get the full picture before they start telling people how to behave. Lets just all get along eh?.......

[shazzababie]

i wasnt there so cant comment on that situation however i think u all need to start behaving as ad ults and not kids..... we have had complaints over the past few weeks of a lot of regs bullying and intimidating and ostracising other chatters....

not naming any names but lots of ppl are guilty of it

IF U DONT LIKE SUM1 USE UR IGGY AND DONT BE DRAWN INTO PETTY SQUABBLES.... KEEP YOUR CRAP OUT OF CHAT PLEASE... REGS WILL BE MUTED OR KICKED IF THEY KEEP THIS UP THEY AINT IMMUNE AS THEY SEEM TO THINK..

[numbnutz]

I agree Shazminator, but I don't think thats what happened here. This was simply an ongoing joke between a group of good friends that was misinterpreted and bent out of proportion by a couple of other people, including the room host. Before anyone gets defensive about the room hosts I would just like to say that I know this host, like this host very much and think he / she does great work (and has a very shexy tan ). This was simply a slip up as they got swept up in the misunderstanding. My point was simply that randomjelly was never asked her side in this as she wasnt even in the room. And now a 3 1/2 year very well loved woc veteran has been driven away from us all. I agree with what you say about iggying people, but didnt think you could iggy hosts??
For a chat room, there wasnt an awful lot of communication going on during that little phase and I think it all could have been avoided if soneone had just asked random her side of things. Like she pointed out up there ^^^^^ even Kim, who was the person the host was supposedly defending, kept telling people to wise up and open their eyes, and yet no one did......

[shazzababie]

oi I am the host with the tan !!!! lol

i agree with what u are saying and perhaps with hindsight the host may have handled it differently, however there are 3 sides to every story

your side
their side
the right side

this shuldnt have got as far as it did, although saying that people need to remember this is a chat site not a playground

[dj lee]

well host with a tan counts me out lol. although i did come in towards the end of this conversation/childs play, and when i asked what was going on, every single one of you said nothing and it was a misunderstanding. everyone has misunderstandings and seen as it didnt go on after that, then why the complaining in here?? if i complained about every misunderstanding i had with a user, poor woc would have to pay for more server space.

how about you all just let it drop and do what u come here to do! and no that isnt complain like children and wind each other up, i hope you all come here to meet new people n have a damn good chin wag.

peace out!!

P.S, the iggy button is as much as an amazing invention as the internet....so bloody use it!!!

[numbnutz]

Its hard to let things drop when one of you best e-friends gets chased out......
It was a misunderstanding but by that point the damage was already done. This realy isnt my argument, I was just agreeing with what had already been pointed out up there ^^^^^^. I do, however, find it difficult to take you seriously when you tell other people to grow up and get along. I havent been browsing these boards for long but Ive already got you pegged as a bit of a whiner dj ,lol. Seems you fall out with a lot of people too
Or is it ok when a mod is upset with a reg? Just not when a reg is upset with a mod?

[shazzababie]

[QUOTE=numbnutz;72395]Its hard to let things drop when one of you best e-friends gets chased out......
It was a misunderstanding but by that point the damage was already done. This realy isnt my argument, I was just agreeing with what had already been pointed out up there ^^^^^^. I do, however, find it difficult to take you seriously when you tell other people to grow up and get along. I havent been browsing these boards for long but Ive already got you pegged as a bit of a whiner dj ,lol. Seems you fall out with a lot of people too
Or is it ok when a mod is upset with a reg? Just not when a reg is upset with a mod?[/QUOTE]

Ah u got him right lol he is always moaning ★★★:-)

[Nutzy66]

i agree with shaz alot of bullying from regulars have bieng going on without reason so use the fooking iggy button and as shaz said none of u are immune here u bully u leave simple and before picking on someone u dont even know look at yourself

[dj lee]

[QUOTE=numbnutz;72395]Its hard to let things drop when one of you best e-friends gets chased out......
It was a misunderstanding but by that point the damage was already done. This realy isnt my argument, I was just agreeing with what had already been pointed out up there ^^^^^^. I do, however, find it difficult to take you seriously when you tell other people to grow up and get along. I havent been browsing these boards for long but Ive already got you pegged as a bit of a whiner dj ,lol. Seems you fall out with a lot of people too
Or is it ok when a mod is upset with a reg? Just not when a reg is upset with a mod?[/QUOTE]


thats perks of the job nutz. there are a lot of regs out there who think they can get away with murder in here, and seem to all of a sudden hate me when i show them they cant. i couldnt give 2 craps what people think of me. decent regs who never cause trouble and actually know me, know im one of the easiest guys to get along with and im a bugger for joking about. im here to do a job at the end of the day, and u will find the ones who never cause trouble/friction in the rooms r the ones that like me. as for whiner, hmmmmmm pot n kettle come to mind here.....:P

peace out