Coptop, the rock, thebentop

[knightofcups]

Im sure Admin are already aware of this indevidual.

Ben AKA Coptop, the rock, thebentop he's a nasty indevidual, who apparently suffers from some form of autisum, and seems to think that due to that, he can get away with calling (mostly female members) slu ts, slag's whores, threaten to kill them, their pets, calling people Pead'os etc the list is endless!

not only that he threatens to go and kill himself, and its disturbing/upsetting other members.

he was in guests for a while and folk got sick of it all.

people have been very paitent and understanding with this guy and tryed to help him and understand he suffer from autisum, but ther language and abuse that he is getting away with at the mo is totally unacseptable, this guy need permanty removed.

he befriends people then turns all nasty causes major upset then say oh lets start again lets put it all behind us, to which poeple are, and taing into account he is suffering form autisum, then he gose of on one again with his abuse etc.

if you wanna get an idea of what's going on, just go into the Music room and queenies cos that's currently the two rooms that he frequents.

the guys already banned but has gotton back in, and nothing changed on his part still a nasty.


Simply put, if his autisums so bad then he shoulden't be allowed to be on heer without some sorta supervision, cos im sure his parent/carers would be totally appauled if they found out what he's doing on here.

once again yes there's an ignore button, it's no good when the insults.threat's/upset, has bee caused.

he's playing some serious nasty mind games with people, all nice one min nasty the next, all good again, then nasty, people are still trying with the guy to no avail


Thank's


Knightofcups

[Thats it]

i agree with knight, hes nice to u for a while then turns of u n its nasty. it gets to the point where u dont want to come into woc anymore because of him and why should i loose my friends on here that ive made.

i dont like the thought of being told that i make him feel he is going to kill himself if i leave, i get called slat **** whore n much more. im told his life isnt worth living cos im not with him

please do something about this boy

[misslipsy]

I feel I have to comment on this thread about last nights events. I entered a room was immediately told by coptop Ben, that I was a ****. As per usual I joked and said yes Im a ****, no point getting all serious about it eh. I was however more upset when Djlee a host, then remarked, Misslipsy would have to find someone to *** her first to be a ****. This is not how I expect a host to speak to me or deal with an abusive member. I left the room, went to another room. Iwas asked how I was by other woccers and when I replied that i was upset at these comments Djlee then made more remarks. These basically saying that I was a bully and should either stfu and *** off the site and stop whingeing.
I told him he was a host and had no right to speak to me that way, when I have been nothing other than decent towards him.
I have made friends here, I like this site, I use ignore button and block cams when appropriate. I do not start arguments, I respond to abuse by telling people they have no right to abuse me and to not talk to me again.
And as far as I am aware, I have people here who respect me, like me and I feel the same way about them.
After months of tolerating abuse from Draven, Viktor, Ice whoever the idiot is, and now these events last night, I am just about fed up of the abuse.
I have every respect for all hosts and mods, communicate well with them all, and have received fantastic support from all when needed. I do feel that what happened last night was totally wrong, and it was witnessed by many.
Thanks for starting this thread Knight.

[dj lee]

i made a comment in there misslipsy which was very clearly a joke and no malice meant in it whatsoever. u had already said before i had commented, that u was in a foul mood and all i was trying to do at the time was clear the air with a bit of humour which you yourself frequently have with me. You took it completely the wrong way, then go into other rooms starting to slate me, which i wont tollerate. both myself and other hosts i have spoken to about it, have agreed that on a few occasions you have given it out, but what we have clearly seen here is when your in a bad mood, anyone that gives it you back will get complaints made, funny that eh??!!. yes ben was way out of order and my hands were tied in that room, but as a regular on this site, you should know me. One thing u should learn is if you are willing to give it out to others, then dont complain when someone tries to have a laugh back with you. And a slight bit of common sense, should have told you that no host would purposely insult you in the rooms in a bad way, let alone whether you knew me or not.

[numbnutz]

Check out randomjellys do not judge and goodbye post in here. According to dj lee its ok for a mod to have an issue with a reg but not ok for a reg to speak out against a mod. Aparently its a perk of the position. Im sure the other mods out there will have something to say about that. I know we havent seen eye to eye for a while lipsy but Im 100% behind you on that.
As per bentard... my niece has severe aspergers which means she has difficulty discerning right and wrong. That leads to all sorts of behaviour issues, but she would never treat anyone like bentard does. Im not a spe******t, but in my experience I would say bentard is just a c*** and hes using a known medical condition as an excuse to be horrible to people. That makes him lower than low in my book.

[numbnutz]

Hmmmmm I wonder whats so offensive about the word speci alist........

[misslipsy]

Lee I have plenty of common sense on here. If I am abused in the room I deal with it in the room. If I find someone upsetting I generally take it up with that person either in pm or in the room. If I feel something is out of order I also will speak to a host about it and most hosts know this. I have a lot of cheeky banter with many people. If I say something and its out of order I always apologise. When I find I cannot get along with a person, I will generally not speak to them or tell them not to speak to me.
I did not "slate you" and you have just apologised and I have accepted that. As far as Im concerned thats it done now.

As for me apparently lashing out and not being able to take it back? hmmmmmmm sorry I find that amusing. I have had many people tell me here they like the fact that I can take most things on the chin. I do love humour, just not abuse and there is a difference.

Numb thanks for your input here too. I have no problem with you, in fact you know very well I enjoyed your company immensely here.

My thoughts....life is too short, have a laugh, enjoy people, you never know whats going on for them

[knightofcups]

[QUOTE=misslipsy;72423]My thoughts....life is too short, have a laugh, enjoy people, you never know whats going on for them[/QUOTE]

That reflects my thought's exactly!

Hopefully thing's will start to improve


Thank's Lipsy



Knightofcups

How did a post about Ben turn into an argument over a joke Lee made? Come on people you know Lee better than that! And for those of you who don't.... that was a joke and one he made only because he thought Lipsy knew him well enough to take it in the spirit in which it was intended.

All of a sudden there's a huge debate again about Regs/Users Vs Hosts/Admin. *Rolls Eyes*

Lee isn't a malicious or a vindictive person and if you do have a concern he's always one of the first to sort it out. Think it's a bit wrong to jump on him just because of one misunderstanding.

[baby blue]

o god folks chill out and stop bickering there is a iggy button use it ..............smileeeee and be happyyyyyyyyyy